Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Easy as 1-2-3

It's Prom time here, and that means the creativity of highschool boys is in overdrive. You will remember the balloons and paint from last year's asking and answering.

I wasn't going to post this year's asking, Matt was going to post it to his facebook page. For some reason it won't upload there so he asked me to post it here for him.

This is how it happened. Saturday night they went out to a pagent. After that they went to her house to watch a movie. Matt volunteered to put the movie in the DVD player. He put this in instead.



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Monday, March 30, 2009

TREE HOUSE by Shel Silvertein

A Tree house, a free house,
A secret you and me house,
A high up in the leafy branches
Cozy as can be house.
A street house, a neat house,
Be sure and wipe your feet house,
Is not my kind of house at all.--
Let's go live in a tree house.
-from page 79, Where the Sidewalk Ends by Shel Silvertein
copyright 1974 by Evil Eye Music, Inc
Published by HaperCollinsPublishers



Did you have a tree house as a child? Or wish you did? Do you still dream about a tree house retreat? Dream no more.

Here are a few pictures of homes that are the new "in" thing to build. (photos courtesy of Blue Forest Tree Houses)

















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Sunday, March 29, 2009

Communion and Covenants

During the sacrament today, Brandi leaned into me and asked, "Mom, why does the prayer say wine when we use water?" I quickly and quietly explained that when Jesus gave us the sacrament, they did use wine, just not the kind of wine we think of when we think wine. I then told her that it would be ok to use juice or other drinkable liquids if that was all that was available because in the end the covenant we are making is more important than what is in the cup.

This thought has been rumbling around in my mind for the last while. I have been feeling that the concept has deeper meaning and is more important than we as mortals can understand.

Since I was still in meetings and my scriptures were all I had available, I turned to the Bible Dictionary:

Covenant- Sometimes denotes an agreement between persons or nations; more often between God and man; but in this latter case it is important to notice that the two parties to the agreement do not stand in the relation of independent and equal contractors. God in his good pleasure fixes the terms, which man accepts. The same word is sometimes rendered “testament.”
The gospel is so arranged that principles and ordinances are received by covenant placing the recipient under strong obligation and responsibility to honor the commitment.

God fixes the terms and we either accept them or not. Again, it seems pretty simple. Take the covenants we make at baptism and renew when we take the sacrament:

  • Take upon us the name of the Savior
  • Always Remember Him
  • Keep His commandments

And He promises that we will always have His spirit to be with us.

I, for one, am thankful that I have the opportunity each and every week to have a do over, to be able to remake the covenant and try again because somehow, someway I can guarantee that I am going to fall short on one or all of those three things.

On another note, this song has always been one of my favorite balm and solace to my soul.

Oh, May My Soul Commune With Thee








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Friday, March 27, 2009

Sugar, Sugar

Going sugar free is not as easy as it sounds. Because I rarely drank it, giving up soda pop was a piece of cake. The cake on the other hand... Acutally, cake was no big deal either since I no longer have time to bake. Candy? Haven't missed it. The recipies I found in this book have helped. They taste good, are easy to prepare and the kids like them. I made cookies the other day and Jake said, "I find it surprising that there is no sugar in these." He then proceeded to eat 4 more and I had to remind him that no sugar did not mean no calories.

My grocery shopping takes me a bit longer because I have to read every single label. If it says sugar or corn syrup or even worse, High Fructose Corn Syrup, I put it back.

Today I wanted some ketchup. This is a label for ketchup. Notice it has both High Fructose Corn Syrup and Corn Syrup. Every single brand I looked at had at least one of these ingredients. Some also had sugar. So, no ketchup was bought today. I did find some on the internet, but it was $6/bottle before shipping. Not worth it. I'll just learn how to make it myself.

I found my food storage room was full of sugar and hfcs. I decided not to throw everything out, though. But as I use something up I have to find a new brand to replace it. But more than a new, no sugar or hfcs added brand, one that tastes good as well. In my quest for healthier food I am finding that if I really want to I can still make the time to cook instead of just opening cans. And I am remembering how much I enjoy making good food and hearing, " This is really good." or "Can we have this again?" "Is there any left?" and my favorite, "Thanks, Mom."

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The Destruction of Families

The following is a post copied from LDS Media Talk blog

LDS Resources to Stop Pornography on the Web

Yesterday, I blogged about the revived proposal to create a .xxx domain for pornography. This article lists several LDS resources that may be of interest to you:

  • LDS Church (Mormon Church) has published pamphlets and posted online helps on combating pornography. More information coming in the future.
  • Utah Coalition Against Pornography is a multi-faith community effort. Their Web site has information about education, statistics, and links to helpful sites. They also provide an annual conference and helpful materials.
  • Citizens Against Pornography is an organization of LDS people who focus on [1] raising awareness about the harms of pornography, [2] protecting standards of decency in our communities and [3] fortifying homes and families against the destructive and pervasive influence of pornography. They promote legislation to require Web site ratings, recommend filtering technologies to assist parents, and have developing a DVD and printed material to assist parents and others. Their Web site provides help for individuals, parents, and spouses.
  • Communities for Decency is a grass-roots statewide women’s organization. Their Web site contains online articles and references to other resources. They also engage in political action.
  • CP-80 Internet Channel Initiative. The Internet Community Ports Act (ICPA) promotes the use of Internet channels (ports) to categorize and organize content on the Internet. The act would create Community Port channels for general-public content and Open Port channels for mature content, such as pornography.
  • Cyber Secrets: The Problem of Pornography is a series of presentations given at a special conference sponsored by Women’s Services and Resources, a department of Student Life at Brigham Young University. The Web site offers the presentations in streaming audio or in print.
  • Lighted Candle Society is a nondenominational, nonprofit organization dedicated to the preservation and enhancement of moral values. Their Web site contains information about the evils and extent of pornography. They also offer a DVD and other materials.
  • Mental Health Resource Foundation is a volunteer organization committed to carrying a message of hope to those who may be suffering from mental illness and social/emotional concerns and those who love them. Their Web site has information on pornography and links to other resources and organizations.
  • National Coalition for the Protection of Children and Families is a nonprofit organization dedicated to defending biblical truth about sexuality. Their Web site has information about avoiding pornography and protecting children from it, as well as links to other organizations.
  • Strengthen the Family is a non-profit organization that seeks to strengthen families and protect communities by helping them establish child-appropriate public display standards. The Web site has articles on the dangers of pornography and Internet safety, including practical advice for parents. Listen to a talk given at BYU education week in 2001 (search for speaker “JoAnn Hamilton”).
  • Evergreen International is a non profit organization dedicated to helping LDS individuals overcome same-sex attraction and assosiated issues, such as pornography. They provide help to individuals, families, professional counselors, and Church leaders. Their large Web site has a few dozen pages on avoiding and overcoming pornography.



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Thursday, March 26, 2009

Tell all post

One of my classmates and I were discussing facebook and blogs last night during a break. He is in the bishopric in his ward and he told me that there are members in his ward that barely speak to each other in person but they are friends on facebook. Not only that, but they tell everyone that can see their profile every little detail of their lives. Then he stated that he didn't understand blogging either. I sort of found it amusing because he is not yet 30 and his wife is expecting their first baby any day. I did mention that Facebook is a great way for my mother to stay up to date with her grandchildren and reading her children's blogs gives us a bridge over the miles that physically seperate us.

I did continue to think about our conversation after class. Then I started thinking about the things that I publish on my Facebook and my blog. I started this blog as a place to review books- 2 coming up in the next week or so. I also started posting a few things about what was going on with the kids so my parents would know. Slowly I started posting a few more personal things, allowing a bit more of me to come through. And I started to have readers that were not family and I met new "friends" and we got to know each other through our blogs.

I also thought about the things I don't tell you. I sometimes think the things that I don't say tell you more about me than the things I do. If you could get a peek at my dashboard you would see that it is full of draft posts. Things I have written and then decided I didn't want to share but didn't want to delete for some reason or another. Tose posts will probably never be posted either. They are usually written when I am stressed or sad and they are a way for me clarify my thoughts. I just don't think I need to work that out in a public forum.

Right now I am having a period of that stress. I sit down to write and search my mind for what I want to say and all I get is

Nothing.

Nothing that isn't one of these stress situations.

So here is one more thing you know about me, when my posts are silly or filled with comics or those "tests" that tell you what car you are, etc. you can pretty much assume that I am in the middle of a high stress situation.

Unless the post is filled with pictures of kids' performances and/or grandbabies. Then I am just bragging or showing off.



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Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Me use small words today

I have a lot I want to say, but I am physically and emotionally tired today. However, I have to go discuss Existentialism and give a presentation on Cognitive Behavioral Techniques in counseling. I don't feel like using such big words right now.

Remind me again why I am doing grad. school?

click on the comic stip to see it all and I will try and fix the borders when I get home from class later tonight)

Pearls Before Swine






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Sunday, March 22, 2009

Sunday

Jordan's blessing day in pictures

This dress was my mother's dress. Her Great-Grandmother made it for my mom. She wore it, all 5 of her daughters wore it, all 10 of her grand-daughters wore it and now her great-grand daughter wore it.

But I just realized that I didn't get any pictures of just Jordan in her blessing dress.

Donovan, Hunter, Kristina and Jordan

(in her blessing dress)

Me, my Mom, Jordan, Kristina, Hunter



Kristina's Mom, Jordan, Kristina, Hunter

My Mom, Jordan, Kristina, Hunter

My mom and Jordan

Donovan and Jordan

My favorite picture from the whole day



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Saturday, March 21, 2009

Hello World

Daddy called Grandma just as she was leaving work today to tell her that he was taking Mommy to the hospital. Grandma was planning on going to Logan to a wedding reception for Daddy's cousin, but said she would stay if Daddy wanted her to. Mommy said there was plenty of time for Grandma to go to Logan, kiss and hug everyone and then come home. So Grandma went. Silly Grandma. She had only been at the reception for 10 minutes when Daddy sent her a text message saying I was already born. I like surprising Grandma like that. And I know that Grandma loves me even if I didn't wait for her to come back from Logan. See? She came to see me when she came home.



Here Grandma is telling me what a silly goose I am for being in such a hurry. She said that I was going to be a determined child because once I decide to do something, I don't wait around. No sir. I just get right to it and get it done.

But I was in such a hurry that Daddy almost missed my arrival. He had to take brother to my other Grandma's house. He was only gone for 1/2 an hour, but I was in a hurry to be here on the first day of Spring. He got back to the hospital just a few minutes before I got here.

I have lots and lots of hair. I got to have a bath and have my hair done before Grandma saw me. That is a good thing because I really wanted to look good when Aunt Jessica took my picture.

Aren't I just the cutest baby in the nursery?

You can see why Grandma loves me.


Grandma says I have to post a picture of brother, because he is just as cute as I am.



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Friday, March 20, 2009

So, how was your day?

My day-

*Didn't know I wasn't picking up one of the kids in the carpool until I got there (though I did suspect it) and no one was home. (note- don't have your girl friend pretend to be your mom and excuse you from class when your mom's friend is the one that answers the phone at the school- you will be marked sluffing and have to go to early morning attendance school)

*Had to sub in Health class, 80% boys. Topic to be taught? STDs, complete with pictures in the power point lesson plan.

*Today was the end of third term at school. Crazy busy in the office with parents trying to excuse every. single. absence for the entire term. No happy parents when I tell them that their child still needs to attend attendance school because even with the excuses, their student has not met the attendance policy.

*Met with students about missing credit for graduation and gave them options to complete in the next 8 weeks in order to be able to graduate. (note- keep track of your student's grades/attendance/credit tally. Don't wait until the last minute because I can promise you for every student I meet with, there are 2-3 that I haven't identified as needing my attention.)

*Typed up tentative agenda for Student Support Team meeting on Monday. Sent it to the assistant principal

*Met with said assistant principal regarding agenda. Added new items to agenda. Sent agenda to all team members so they will have it Monday in time for the meeting.

*Turned off computer, answered a few more phone calls (had to use Shelly's computer to look up students)

*Thought about everything I needed to do before I leave for my nephew's wedding reception this evening

*And the best part of the whole day? Donovan called me and told me they are on the way to the hospital for the baby to be born. I may not go to the reception after all.



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Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Spring, Spring, Spring

Today would have been my grandmother's 89th birthday. I miss her. A lot.

What I have always loved about Grandma's birthday is that it comes in the spring when there is newness all around us.

See all the newness in my yard?


Crocus

Lamb's ear by my waterfall


Creeping Thyme in my pathway



Early buds on the Japanese Maple
(snow on Timp in the background)


The view from the front yard
Coming in the next couple of days, a picture of my new granddaughter.
(We are still praying for her to get here before Donovan has to leave Tuesday.)

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Friday, March 13, 2009

The 13the Reality

In honor of Friday th 13th, I thought I would do a post about 13.


The Hunt for Dark Infinity

It s been a quiet summer for Tick, Paul, and Sofia, but the latest message from Master George changes everything. The Realities are in danger and from something more terrible than Mistress Jane and the mutated Chi karda of the Thirteenth Reality. People from all Realities are unexplainably going insane. Worse, some Realities are fragmenting, disintegrating into nothingness. Master George has learned that Mr. Chu from the Fourth Reality is working on a mysterious new weapon called Dark Infinity. But no one has any idea how to stop the weapon or even if it can be stopped.


To make matters worse, Tick and his friends have been kidnapped, forced to wink from Reality to Reality, solving impossible riddles in order to survive the deadly traps surrounding them.


Mistress Jane and Tick find themselves in a race to reach the weapon first but who will destroy it and who will become its master?

Things I like about James Dashner's 13th Reality series:
*The bad guys are really, really bad
*The heroes are kids, but their parents are involved in their lives and are not stupid clueless idiots waiting around for the kids to save the world.
*Just when you think you know what will happen, it doesn't
*There are discussion questions at the back of the book. Good questions, not lame pretend like you are talking to your kid questions. These are questions designed to make both the parent and the child think.

Product Details
Reading level: Ages 9-12
Hardcover: 464 pages
Publisher: Shadow Mountain (March 4, 2009)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 1606410342
ISBN-13: 978-1606410349
Product Dimensions: 8.4 x 5.7 x 1.6 inches

Buy the book here

Read James Dashner's blog here

The 13th Reality website

The Mazerunner (picked up by Random House)



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Thursday, March 12, 2009

Memo

When throwing a birthday party for your little girl, please assume that at least one mother of the invited guests will be directionaly challenged. Especially if you live on an obscure street that is new to the city and there is only one way into your culdesac. Please include directions to said house and perhaps a balloon or two tied to the mailbox to indicate which house is yours.

If you do this, said mother will no longer waste party time finding your home and said guest child will not be thinking that her mother is not as smart as she thought.



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Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Waiting

We are in countdown mode

* Donovan comes home Saturday

* Grandbaby #2 should be here sometime in the next 2 weeks. We are praying for anytime after Saturday and before the 21 so that Donovan will be here and be able to give her her name and blessing.



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Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Disturbing

I heard a bit of disturbing news this morning.


Apparently the legislators in Connecticut believe that they can do this because the legislation would not regulate religious practices but monetary issues. I find this reasoning to be alarming. Once government starts taking over bits and pieces of churches, what is to stop them from regulating or even forming or mandating religion?

Read the bill here.



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Sunday, March 8, 2009

To do today

*Today is my brother's birthday. Well actually it was yesterday for him, but yesterday was today because today is tomorrow already for him. He lives in Australia. The important thing here is this: HAPPY BIRTHDAY, DUSTIN.

*Today is also my brother-in-law's birthday. He is an amazing artist. There is a link to his Etsy shop there in my sidebar. You should go check it out. HAPPY BIRTHDAY, JACOB.

*Annette Lyon's new book, Tower of Strength is in stores now. In conjunction with the release, Annette is doing a blog tour. My review will be here on April 9. But, Annette is having a week of giveaways on her blog. There are some great things being given away this week. Go over there and enter. The giveaway for Thursday is a parfume gift set in a scent created by yours truly.


"White Pearl," inspired by Tower of Strength .The scent is a light, refreshing blend of coconut, rose, and white musk. It's very feminine.The gift pack includes 3 Urban Botanic products scented with "White Pearl": Parfume spray, Nourishing Body Lotion and a Refreshing Shower Gel. Plus, a bit of fun news: If a man wins this prize, he'll get the gift pack in a scent I designed for the hero of Tower of Strength, Samuel, called "Timeless." The UB shower gel doubles as a shaving gel, and the lotion is a great after shave. "Timeless" is masculine but not overpowering.



So head on over there and get your entries in.

Developing a Christlike Character

In Word and Deed He doth require

My will to His, like son to sire
Be made to bend and I, as son
Learn conduct from the Holy One
LDS Hymns 187

President David O. McKay tells of a visit to a sculptor's yard in Florence, Italy:

"Scattered about were unbroken, irregular piecesof granite from which a sculptor was preparing to cut out a vision which he saw in his mind...

"If you had stood in that yard, and a man had placed in your hands a chisel and a hammer, would you have dared to take one of the shapeless blocks of stone and carve a human image out of it? You could not do it. Or if someone had placed before you a canvas and given you paints and put in your hands a brush, would you have undertaken to paint on that canvas he picture of an ideal soul? You probably would have said to the first, 'I am not a sculptor," and to the second, 'I am not a painter. I cannot do it."

"Nevertheless, each of u is carving a soul this very minute-- our own. Is it going to be a deformed one, or is it going to be something admirable and beautiful?

"Your is the esponsibility. Nobody else can carve it for you. Parents may guide, and teachers may help with suggestins, but each young man and young woman has the responsibility to carve his own character."




There has been only one perfect man in this world. One who was perfect in character, conqueror over weakness and temptation. One who was perfect in truth, justice, wisdom, benevolence and self control. One who's every thought, word and deed were in harmony and true. As christians we honor him, not because he was a great poet or scientist or discoverer, inventor or statesman but because He was a great man. He was and is our pattern for whom we should become.
Photo courtesy of Altus Fine Art: Simon Dewey

When I was 15, my young women's advisor decided that we, the young women, needed a way to keep track of the goals that we set. In our stake was an artist, Sister Jones. Sister Jones agreed to help us all paint a goal chart. Sort of like Bob Ross young women's addition. We would all purchase a canvas and paint brushes and meet at Sister Jones' house where she would guide us step by step in creating our painting. When we were done we would have a landscape painting- sky, mountains, a few bushes and a path that led towards the top of the canvas, representing the path that our goals were taking us. We, the young women, would then write our goals on slips of paper and tape them to the painting. In theory each goal would build on the one before it until we reached the final goal in that set, then we could start all over again.

Let me tell you a bit about my artistic ability. My mom paints. She paints beautiful paintings. I have some of it hanging in my house. I didn't get even the smallest slice of the artistic gene from her. None. If you gave me a blank piece of paper, a pencil and a ruler, I could not draw a straight line. All through elementary school I wondered how other girls made their coloring book pages look like a work of art. Outlining, shading, staying in the lines- all lost on me. So the prospect of sitting in Sister Jones' studio where other people could see the mess I was making of my canvas was pretty scary and I was not sure if I wanted to do it. Maybe Mom would decide that driving that far was a bit much (I didn't grow up in Utah and a stake encompases a lot more than a couple of blocks)

I went because I was a good girl and did as I was told. I sat there as Sister Jones explained how to pepare our canvas, how to mix the paint, how to apply it. And I sat there as everyone else got started. They all had pretty blue skies, I had blue paint on my canvas. It got better. Sister Jones was patient, though I am sure she wished that I was not so lacking in the artistic gene. I could have cooked just about anything you wanted, or done an interpretive dance. Crying baby? Hand it to me and it will be asleep in no time. But painting a landscape?

I did learn a lot from Sister Jones before the paintings were done. Do you ever lay on your back and watch the clouds and try to find all the shapes in them? Me too. Did you know that clouds are flat on the bottom? Neither did I. Not until Sister Jones told me. Now whenever I look at a cloud, I think of Sister Jones and then I study it and really look at it. I see more than white fluffy shapes. I see the flat bottom, the lights and darks and every shade in between.

You know what else I learned from Sister Jones? I learned how to make mountains look like mountains. I learned how to make a flat brown streak of paint look like a bank of dirt. You know how to do it? You have to know where the source of light is in your painting then apply your contrasts according to that. That is the most important thing to know, where the source of light is.

So it is when we are developing a Christlike character. We need to know where our source of light is and then follow it. President McKay said, "If you keep your character above reproach, no matter what others may think or what charges they make, you can hold your head erect, keep your heart light, and face the world undauntedly because you, yourself, know that you have kept your soul untarnished."

As for my goal chart? I finished it and it hung in my bedroom until I graduated from high school, then it hung in my bedroom at college. Today it hangs in my sewing room where I can look at it and remember that I need to always know where my source of light is.




Next week: maintaining righteous thoughts


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Thursday, March 5, 2009

You won't feel a thing

Katie lay in her bed, cozy and warm, wrapped in the blanket that her grandmother made for her. It was her favorite blanket and she used it whenever she wanted to feel the love that her grandmother had for her. Katie was enjoying the dream she was having. Meadows, birds, wild strawberries, her grandmother and her.

The door to Katie's room flew open with a bang that startled her awake. She blinked against the light streaming in from the hallway. Two shadows advanced on her bed. After her eyes adjusted to the light, she saw two men, dressed in suits standing over her. One of them grabbed her hands and bound them behind her while the other one bound her feet. Then the first man placed a gag in her mouth.

"You ruined my life and I just can't deal with it any more. For that, you, my dear, have to die." The voice of the second man was quiet yet forceful.

"Don't worry, sweetie," said the first man as he pulled a syringe out of his pocket. "It will all be over soon. I'll just inject this pain killer and you won't feel a thing as you die."

The following was in the news today:

SALT LAKE CITY (AP) -- The Utah Senate has approved a bill requiring doctors to tell women about to receive an abortion that a 20-week-old fetus could experience pain and that medication is available to reduce it.
House Bill 222, sponsored by Rep. Carl Wimmer, R-Herriman, is intended to make women think twice before getting an abortion and encourage those who get one to request anesthesia for the fetus.
Exceptions would be made in emergencies and doctors could tell women their opinion on whether fetuses experience pain at that stage of development.
The Senate approved the measure 22-4 on Thursday. However, it made a few changes to Wimmer's bill, and it will be sent back to the House for another vote there before it can go to the governor.

Please tell me how giving a baby a pain blocker before killing it makes it ok?



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Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Some Beach, Somewhere


We have had a couple of days of really nice weather. I heard the "s" word on the weather forecast last night, but I am going to ignore it and pretend that I am somewhere warm with beautiful white sands and aqua colored water and nothing to do and all day to do it.



Did I ever mention that Donovan plays steel drums. Yellow Bird has always been my favorite steel drum song. Now Jake is learning the steel drums too.





I learned how to Hula, a long time ago. It was one of the hardest dances I ever learned to do. Harder than the Latin dances. One thing I never did get to learn was how to use the Poi balls. Someday I want to learn how to do that.







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Monday, March 2, 2009

Abinadi



Raquel has a secret. As the daughter of one of King Noah’s priests, she enjoys a luxurious life and the admiration of powerful men. But her heart belongs to a commoner, a man with no earthly wealth but rich heavenly gifts. When King Noah demands that Raquel join his harem, she flees the only life she has known and marries her secret love. His name is Abinadi.



The couple finds abundant joy in their community of believers and in their firstborn son. But when the Lord calls Abinadi as His prophet, their faith is tested to the outermost limits. Abinadi’s commitment to the Lord requires them both to give their all—even unto death. Yet if Alma, the newest priest in King Noah’s court, chooses to overcome his troubled past and cleave unto the truth, their sacrifice may yield rich fruit.



With vivid detail and poignant emotion, this historical novel pulls readers into a fiery tale of love, courage, and faith that is difficult to put down and impossible to forget.

We read this book for our Provident Ladies Book Club February selection. I have not read H.B. Moore's Out of Jerusalem series, so I had no idea what kind of author she was. I will admit that I was worried about the premise of Abinadi being a young man instead of the older prophet that we usually picture him as. In fact, while chatting a friend stated,

I have to say that all the reviews say the same thing, that it was a good move to make Abinadi a younger character. But that's all they say. Which leads me to believe one of a few things. It is a short novel and doesn't require too much complexity. It is a romance (again) and the main character has to be young in order to, well, do stupid things that guys do in romances, even if he is a prophet. Or, they all copied the other guy's review.

To that friend I would say, Yes it is short, 248 pages, but it made me think about the people involved in the story. The real people. The ones we read about in the scriptures. Parts that I usually just skip over. Like Alma the elder. I honestly never really thought about what kind of man he was while he was a priest in King Noah's court. In my mind he was just kind of there, hanging out until Abinadi's part was over and it was time to read about Alma's conversion. Heather made Alma come alive for me. I enjoyed watching his descent into sloth and degregation just so I could feel the rapture in his change.

And King Noah. Wicked does not begin to cover it. Again, I had never put much thought into what exactly was covered by that word "wicked". Oh, he is truly a wicked man. But not as wicked as Amulon, whom I usually just sort of skip over thinking about when reading the Book of Mormon. You want a wicked man? Amulon is your guy. I will be paying a lot more attention to him when I reach those chapters in a couple weeks.

As for making Abinadi younger? I think it was a good move. Heather tell us in the Preface of the book and she told us again at the book club meeting that she did research and could find no indications of how old Abinadi was. According to Robert J. Matthews in an April 1992 Ensign article, "We know nothing of Abinadi's early life. We find nothing in the record to indicate whether he was old or young, large or small. What we do find... is a man of courage with an agile mind, a profound knowledge of the gospel, and a strong personality."

In the preface, Heather also tells us that she made him young so that his death would be one of a man that had a lot left to live for. A wife, a child, a home, a dream. Not the death of a man that had lived a good life full of happiness and contentment, but the death of a man just beginning to find those things. A death of a man that could have chosen to go home to his wife and child, but instead choose to follow the call of God.

As for Abinadi being young so that he could do the stupid things that guys do in romances? Not really. Yes, his being young helped that there could be a romance, but it is not stupid and sappy. And I never felt the urge to throw the book across the room or gouge my eyes out during the romance scenes. It is too bad that not all husbands and wives love each other as much as Abinadi and Raquel in the short time they had together.