Saturday, January 3, 2009

Crusades

As part of my learning to be more healthy, happy, and in the interest of tearing down some walls I am going to go public with a couple of my crusades, things I have been fighting against/educating others about/wishing I had no personal knowledge of, for the past 25 years or so: Domestic violence and Pornography addiction (others' addictions and how it affects a family, just to keep that clear). So be prepared throughout the year if I post about them as I step up my fight against these vile and evil imposters of love and destroyers of lives and families.

Today is my first post about violence. I ran across this article the other day as my team member and I were researching gender equality. You can find it and more here. My comments are in red below

Violence Against Women in the United States
MURDER. Every day four women die in this country as a result of domestic violence, the euphemism for murders and assaults by husbands and boyfriends. That's approximately 1,400 women a year, according to the FBI. The number of women who have been murdered by their intimate partners is greater than the number of soldiers killed in the Vietnam War. (contrast that with Sweden where there are only 16 deaths/year because of domestic violence)


BATTERING. Although only 572,000 reports of assault by intimates are officially reported to federal officials each year, the most conservative estimates indicate two to four million women of all races and classes are battered each year. At least 170,000 of those violent incidents are serious enough to require hospitalization, emergency room care or a doctor's attention. (too often the battering is of a verbal nature and it is very hard to prove or for the woman to get help. She has to repeat herself over and over and over before anyone will listen to her. And that is if his constant badgering hasn't worn her down)


SEXUAL ASSAULT. Every year approximately 132,000 women report that they have been victims of rape or attempted rape, and more than half of them knew their attackers. It's estimated that two to six times that many women are raped, but do not report it. Every year 1.2 million women are forcibly raped by their current or former male partners, some more than once. (Tristi did an excellent post on this subject. Read it here)


THE TARGETS. Women are 10 times more likely than men to be victimized by an intimate. Young women, women who are separated, divorced or single, low- income women and African-American women are disproportionately victims of assault and rape. Domestic violence rates are five times higher among families below poverty levels, and severe spouse abuse is twice as likely to be committed by unemployed men as by those working full time. Violent attacks on lesbians and gay men have become two to three times more common than they were prior to 1988.


IMPACT ON CHILDREN. Violent juvenile offenders are four times more likely to have grown up in homes where they saw violence. Children who have witnessed violence at home are also five times more likely to commit or suffer violence when they become adults. (what I hate is that women are often charged with child abuse because they did not leave an abusive situation. It becomes a catch 22 as the system makes it so difficult to prove the abuse happened or to protect the woman and children if they leave- often they are punished in the form of having to live in poverty, no medical insurance, inadequate nutrition,housing etc)


IMPACT ON HEALTH AND SOCIAL SERVICES. Women who are battered have more than twice the health care needs and costs than those who are never battered. Approximately 17 percent of pregnant women report having been battered, and the results include miscarriages, stillbirths and a two to four times greater likelihood of bearing a low birth weight baby. Abused women are disproportionately represented among the homeless and suicide victims. Victims of domestic violence are being denied insurance in some states because they are considered to have a "pre-existing condition." (the reason so many women stay and put up with it- they can't get insurance if they leave and any conditions he caused will not be insured when she does get insurance)


LEGISLATION. In 1994, the National Organization for Women, the NOW Legal Defense and Education Fund, and other organizations finally secured passage of the Violence Against Women Act, which provides a recordbreaking $1.8 billion to address issues of violence against women. (if she can get someone to listen to her and help her.)


SOURCES:"Violence Against Women: A National Crime Victimization Survey Report", U.S. Department of Justice, Washington, D.C., January 1994."The National Women's Study," Crime Victims Research and Treatment Center, Medical University of South Carolina, Charleston, SC, 1992."Five Issues In American Health," American Medical Association, Chicago, 1991. Bullock, Linda F. and Judith McFarlane, "The Birth Weight/Battering Connection," Journal of American Nursing, September 1989.McFarlane, Judith, et. al., "Assessing for Abuse During Pregnancy," Journal of the American Medical Association, June 17, 1992.Federal Bureau of Investigation statistics, 1992.Sheehan, Myra A. "An Interstate Compact on Domestic Violence: What are the Advantages?" Juvenile and Family Justice Today, 1993.Sherman, Lawrence W. et al. Domestic Violence: Experiments and Dilemmas, 1990.A study of five cities -- New York, Chicago, San Francisco, Boston and Minneapolis -- by the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, published in 1992



Indeed.

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